At What Age Should I Be In A Relationship

 Generally, there's no fixed age or time in one's life, when he or she can begin a relationship. The most important thing that must be met before being in any relationship is that you must be "Mature". I’ve observed that age has little or nothing to do with it but of exposure, stability and ability to handle responsibilities.

I have met young people who are mature well beyond their years, and I’ve known older folks who act childish, only thinking about themselves. Also talking about Maturity there are several areas in one's life where one must be matured.

 So in this post: How to Know You Are Ready To Be In A Relationship,  I will be talking on six areas where you must have been matured enough  to be sure you are ready to be in a relationship.

1. Spiritual Maturity:

Spiritual maturity is a process that begins when a person accepts Jesus Christ as Savior. He or she is born again of the Holy Spirit and then chooses to live "in Christ." It also means walking in obedience to God. You Can only get the right Person  to be married to when you are in the right standing with God because since he's the one who created you, he definitely knows the best for you. So the first step to be sure you are ready for a relationship is if you are matured spiritually.

2. Physical Maturity: 

   This is also an important factor to be considered when thinking of being in a relationship. Anyone who wants to start up a relationship must have reached his/her full level of physical development. You should be ripe enough so that you will be able to satisfy your partner completly which will prevent him/her to cheat on you.

3. Moral Maturity: 

   One is said to be Moral matured if he or she apply's a body of knowledge or a skill to the solution of a problem, or to the understanding of a situation. Being Morally Mature means that you don't take decisions based on only your point of view but also being considerate about what your partner opinion is too. Which means you must be a good listener. When you are matured morally then you are a step closer to being in a lovely relationship.

4. Financial Maturity: 

   What I mean by being Financial Matured is that you should be Financial independence that  is you don't depend on anybody to take care of your own personal needs and wants and also being financially matured means you are not extravagant in the way you spend money that is you are the type of person that spend money on things that are necessary. For this to be achieved you must surely have a job where you earn your income so as to accumulate enough assets, that the income those assets produce can reasonably be expected to meet your needs for the rest of your life. Let me say this bitter truth, For ladies, no responsible man wants to be in a relationship with a woman that will be a liability to him and also for men, no woman would want to be with a Man that has no Job. So this implies that if you are planning to be in a relationship, you must make sure you are matured enough in the aspect because it's also an important factor to having a love filled relationship.

5. Emotional Maturity:

  Emotional maturity is a key factors in maintaining healthy relationships—romantic or otherwise. Many people are lacking in these areas, which leads to a breakdown in communication and, ultimately, complications in or even the breakup of relationships.

Emotional maturity is the ability to handle situations without unnecessarily escalating them which brings about a peaceful relationship. Instead of seeking to blame someone else for their problems or behavior, emotionally mature people seek to fix the problem or behavior. They accept accountability for their actions. So unless you are mature emotionally please it's not advisable to be thinking of Starting a relationship because you will get upset on little things which might cause to relationship to crumble and fall leading to heart breaks and so on.

6. Social Maturity:

  Social Maturity simply means being able to properly relate to friends, family and your partner. Some people claim to be social naturally that is partying, going on outing, which is fine but when you are planning to be in a relationship you should be able to cut somethings out of your social life and doing this is what makes you socially mature. If for instance before you were in a relationship you go out and get back home very late at night like around 11:00pm or even worse than that, and when u now finally get to be in a relationship you reduced the rate at which u go out or you now get home earlier than before, it means you are mature socially. Unless you are ready to do this, then you are not yet ready to begin or be in a relationship.

   In conclusion, If you are not mature in all of this aspect of your life, then you are definitely not ready to be in a relationship. Unnecessary pressure from friends, family, and society can lead people to start a relationship before they're ready or understand what they want from it." So I will end with this make sure you you know the reason you want to be in a relationship even if you are matured enough.

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  1. That is educative ND lovely.

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    1. yeah martin, some character you just seem to just have unlocked..But still, it says alot before you get into a relationship

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